Trauma if it continues breeds hurt and harsh feelings. We can expect it to go on or hope that something will magically happen to change the other person's behavior. But there is no magic, there is only cause and effect. Those who believe in magic are only kidding themselves. If you apply different effort
and the recipient does not respond as you desire, then it is time to move on. We have to understand that those who are abusive choose to respond as they do. We cannot change other peoples choices. We can only change what we are going to do. So, what are you going to do? Accept things as they are? Or, take action to better your life? Either way a major choice takes effort.